Yeah the girls! Tinder have just said that in a future update, they are going to release a "Ladies First" feature, giving women the option the message first, much like the dating app Bumble.
Tinder's default option is that either sex can message first, however competition from Bumble could be the reason for wanting to install this new option. Wahine can now decide if they want to enable the feature, in which after a match is made, only she can message the match first.
Chilvary ain't dead!